SEYA Collective

 As a "newly out" teenager in 2019, I was constantly looking for media about queer culture, in an attempt to reassure myself about my own sexuality. During one such Netflix deep dive session, I came across the phenomenon that is Sex Education. What initially started as a casual "it comes highly recommended but I'm probably going to watch it for timepass" kind of watch turned into a full blown love affair in no time. The fact that the queer characters weren't reduced to caricaturish tropes was a pleasant surprise, I have to admit. I'm aware that the bar is literally on the ground, let's move on. Although the 'homophobic bully turning into the boyfriend' is a trope I have serious issues with, I was highly impressed by the fact that Eric Effiong, who would've been reduced to the "gay best friend" by mainstream cinema got a love triangle. Love triangles have traditionally been between two strong women with amazing personalities an...

One morning she woke from what seemed like a nightmare and googled “How does an orgasm feel?” and google said “ It's similar to your body falling off a cliff into a pile of tingling ecstasy. It's a sense of sensual release that you find yourself having no control over and letting yourself go because it's just too damn good. An earth-shattering female orgasm is one of a kind” confused, she shot her next question “Is manipulation a form of abuse?” While google is a safe space to explore our wildest curiosities, Is google really the place for these questions? Why was she not aware of something so natural? Why do we shy away so much from these conversations? In spite of growing up in an urban setup there was a lack of formal education on sexual reproductive health and rights. There was always a sense of ambiguity and some kind of stigma around it. To even talk to your own family and friends in cases. Sex-ed classes were moments of shame, laughter and giggles. Most of us even f...